Tuesday, January 1, 2008

Assets v/s Assholes

"asshole".This,coming from a woman in her mid-twenties,at park street, wearing a dress with a neckline,which would succeed in giving pamela anderson an acute inferiority complex.
(i am quite aware that the repitition of what is considered,a socially filthy slang for a perfectly normal anatomical part,might be disturbing to many who read this.So if you are disgusted too easily,then you have been warned...)

"asshole" is how the same woman chose to describe some boys who were measuring(the bongs define this concept as "mepe neoa") her neckline from a distance with their heightened sense of vision.Now my point is....why blame them???!!! why would a girl dress up in sensuous attire? the obvious answer is to look good and appear more attractive. Now presuming that the girl has inclinations towards people of the opposite sex,why create a moral ruckus while receiving stares? Is'nt it something which she wanted in the first place...attention? i admit that in such situations,"ogling" is the definitive term;but you can't have the cake and eat it too!!!!
the male homocritus has long been fascinated with a womans body... so when these "assholes" are ogling at a womans physical "assets",they are merely carrying on the tradition of almost all males in the world.
if looking at them is considered an act of extreme perversion,then there is a simple solution to it....cover 'em asssets up. i can see women crying hoarse already.."why cant we dress the way we want to?" well then..why do you want to dress in that manner??!! back to square one,is'nt it?!!gimme a break....our ancestors were monkeys...so the primary bestial instincts of a man will never remain suppressed...no matter how much we evolve as better rational creatures.

"give the fool rope enough and he will hang himself"
"give the man a neckline deep enough and he will ogle"
i hope the crude similarity drives home the point.

3 comments:

Kismet said...

Unbelieveable. Just becoz you got enough testosterones to grow a penis, it does not give you the leeway to make mysogynistic comments. "so the primary bestial instincts of a man will never remain suppressed...no matter how much we evolve as better rational creature" - so after billions of years of evolution, is that what you are as a species - beasts?????

Admittedly, it is risky for ladies to wear attire that gets attn from you "beasts", and albeit negative ones. No matter what we wear,what confers you to the right to make derogatory comments young man? It is a free world, and we girls have the capacity to defend ourselves physically against males like you. And hey you are foolishly assuming that we dress provocatively for men - we dress for our own eyes, and for our own gender.....now how about that big strong man???? opened your mouth too soon eh?!!!

Reema said...

Lolz too strong commenting!! Well I agree with u that if dressed provocatively a girl is bound to receive ogles and comments because no evolution can change the basic instincts, just can enable the educated ones to hide it better.And I disagree with u because guys stare and whistle even if a girl wears decent top and jeans or even salwar kameez. (dont even get me started on sari..cuz i think Indian men have made it the essential dress for their women for their own benefit).

Asad said...

@reema:"And I disagree with u because guys stare and whistle even if a girl wears decent top and jeans or even salwar kameez.."
thats a very pertinent point that u have and i cant deny dat...bt thnx 4 agreeing on some points! most gurls wud never agree anyway!so ur comment means a lot!!!!